Discussion of the Day
Act your age
Chin CMay 26, 24
Have you ever been told to act or dress your age? How would you respond if someone made a comment about the way you act or even the way you dress? I recently bought a t-shirt that I thought really sums up my feeling: Don't know how to act my age, I have never been this old before ...
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  • Tara 1499461
    I think this kind of thing comes down to other people not feeling good about themselves inside to be able to tell another to act there age people can be them we don't have a right to tell another how they can be. There is the obvious saying a t your again and this can be true sometimes if a full grown women was crawling around on the floor kicking and screaming we all might think act your age lady but then again OT could be a dare so I think people need to stop and think before they say those words act your age be cause you never really know what's actually going on.
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    • John Fulton Survey_Master#55
      We're all growing up every single day. Therefore, it is important to act our ages.
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      • M I 8
        Ask him this question: are you referring to how I behave or how I dress?
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        • boy blunder
          I didn't know trackies t-shirts and thongs had an age limit, plenty of people including family pay me out but the nice thing about getting old you can turn the music up in your hearing aids
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          • JesMartT361
            Sixty years old and renewing my mind daily
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            • Ram 1380429
              to me it is irrelevant. Dress should be neutral and one should be allowed to select as per his choice irrespective of age.
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              • Lady Flamingo
                I'm "29" at heart for being 60 yrs. young. I will take that I look like I'm in my 40s 8 days a week! LOL!
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                • Lance P 1114997
                  So so good
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              • Jacob 1466982
                I am a senior citizen, with grey hair above my ears.... but I dont care what people think of me... my heart is still a 17 year old and I dress according to the times... in summer I wear shorts with my shirt out ( no insert) and in winter I wear the latest style of fleece's both top and bottom... well if some young one or older feels attracted I would say be my guest and lets start a conversation..... Never ever feel bad about how u have to present yourself just be natural... age will come dont let that make u feel your age
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                • Ek M
                  Sometimes older people can act their age in a much less tolerant manner, then I think it's time to reflct and act as though one is much younger
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                  • Tasneem 1372544
                    I believe you do ad you wish. What makes you happy. You control your happiness,
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                    • Pam G 449028
                      I act my age, at the moment I also feel every bit of my age.
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                      • Pato Lo Duck
                        I act my age every day… and even sometimes at night.. due to the fact that I have to get up and pee much more frequently than 40 years ago..
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                        • JANET R 328390
                          No way I am going to be told how to act. I am 77. I will act HOW I WANT TO ACT. Don't waste your time trying to control me. As long as I am not harming anyone - I SAY JUMP IN THE LAKE AND CONTROL SOMEONE ELSE. And to be fair - I have said that a few times.
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                          • helen 1499706
                            who decides this? only you do
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                            • Susan 1441337
                              As long as your not harming anyone else I say be whatever age you feel
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                              • Cher
                                You are as old as you feel.
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                                • Martin D
                                  People don't believe I'm 62 , especially people at the gym. When they ask I say "take a guess & then I'll tell you ". The most common reply is "50" so I'll take that any day.
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                                  • Pat C 618241
                                    I could get away with that comment Sharon until late 60s but now at 86 I can't even fool me!
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                                    • Susan 1441337
                                      The fact your able to use the internet and do surveys is a big plus.
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                                  • Kathy A 494332
                                    Age is just a number but there are accepted behaviours that go with certain age groups.
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                                    • Sharon T 891767
                                      I don't act my age[65], people think I'm younger and when I tell them some don't believe me.Once in awhile my bones feel my age.
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                                      • GRAEME W 313058
                                        Just tell them where to go!
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                                        • JANET R 328390
                                          I totally AGREE and I have a few times. Hahaha
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                                      • Priscilla R 316016
                                        Which age? The age you are, or the age you feel?
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                                        • SUSIE W
                                          I vow I will never act my age The husband told me to one time, didn’t go down well at all !!!
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                                          • Catherine G 309964
                                            As long aas it hurts no-one, do as you wish
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                                            • Libby 1516139
                                              Each to their own, everyone has an opinion and no one can please everyone. If you’re acting in a way that aligns with your values and you’re not hurting anyone then what’s the problem? Choose to be curious and kind rather than judgmental and snide
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                                              • Laura W 363255
                                                Like that saying!
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                                                • Timtam
                                                  I wear whatever I am comfortable wearing and care nothing for anybody else's opinion of what I wear or don't wear. I have no idea what 'acting your age' is supposed to look like & quite frankly wouldn't give a rats. I'd probably tell them to go take a long walk off a short plank, but in much more colourful language.
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                                                  • Phyrephly
                                                    Exactly the same
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                                                • Maria B 89860
                                                  A good Actor/Actress can cat any age, put on any clothes and if clothes maketh a man then why not a woman too!
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                                                  • Janet H 854956
                                                    I have more years behind me than in front, so I will act and dress how I please, for as long as my husband lets me!! 🤣
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                                                    • Missy Wyld
                                                      i dont think there is a rule book that tells you how to act at any certain age. It's the old saying, you act as young (or old) as u feel. I'm 65, sometimes I feel 100, othertimes I feel well not quite teenager but much younger than I am!! (which I get told by others). It's your outlook on life that dictates how you act I think. So at the end of the day, who the fark really cares how you act/feel? as long as you are not hurting anyone then stuff them!
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                                                      • Oms 1517081
                                                        Im young at heart will act accordingly thanks for the hate
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                                                        • Terri
                                                          At 74 I wear what I like shorts in summer no one can tell me what to wear and I sure don’t act my age as age is but a number.
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                                                          • Greg T 1041472
                                                            Good on you
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                                                        • Chin C
                                                          This is my shirt. Dare I say it, I look young for my age 😝
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                                                          • Edith v
                                                            You look great to me .Wear what you like ,Anybody who makes personal negative & unkind comment are usually jealous
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                                                            • Sabine V
                                                              What's that?
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                                                              • Paula J 395266
                                                                I always act my age and I'm always aware of whether the clothes I wear are age appropriate. There's nothing worse than mutton dressed as lamb.
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                                                                • Sheree T
                                                                  I dress to be comfortable as long as everything that needs to be covered is. And always try to act in a way that is appropriate so as not to offend others. The t-shirt you bought is great.
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                                                                  • writerrochelle
                                                                    So Cute! I Love it! LOL! Well, I'm 76, I act silly, make people laugh, and dress neat, clean and comfortable so, if anyone has anything to say about me, they are the one with the problem. I don't remember anyone saying anything to me like that in my lifetime, but there's a lot I can't remember anymore! Oh, they do say I'm too skinny now that I've lost down to 134 pounds, at 5' 2", but never said I was fat at 180 pounds! Go figure? ;-D
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                                                                    • Joe B 288252
                                                                      I think very experienced people should age politely disgracefully. Look on the bright side and enjoy folks……..lol
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                                                                      • Carolina Z
                                                                        Do what pleases you as long as it does not offend anyone...
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                                                                        • Gee Star
                                                                          This is a T-Up not a G-Up.😊
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                                                                          • Larry S 382961
                                                                            Good one Chin C. Yes agree
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                                                                            • Jytte (Auckland, NZ)
                                                                              I have definitely been told that many times. I tell people to go *&^% themselves! 🤣🤣🤣
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                                                                              • Greg B 520364
                                                                                I have the same shirt. I under stand.
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                                                                                • Jan H 753322
                                                                                  I love the t- shirt! where can I buy one? If we dress in what suits us it doesn't matter if we are young or old
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                                                                                  • Chin C
                                                                                    Check out my avatar. I got it online.
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                                                                                • Paul C 392065
                                                                                  when told this, my reply is, I have never been this age before so I make it up as I go along
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                                                                                  • susan 1493414
                                                                                    no one tells me how to dress except me
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                                                                                    • Beverly I
                                                                                      Dress anyway you like ,it's what you feel comfortable in
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                                                                                      • Donald
                                                                                        I wear what I want, not ' clothes for your age'
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                                                                                      • Beverly IDonald
                                                                                        I'm the same I just wear what I feel comfortable in. My friends are the same too
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                                                                                    • Susan KTC
                                                                                      T shirt sounds cool 😎 Be yourself that’s my motto! Moving into one’s senior years means you can wear what you want, be who you want and have some fun, you’ve earn’t it 🤪
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                                                                                      • Andrew C 287196
                                                                                        "Act your age, not your shoe size." 😉 "Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional." 😉
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                                                                                        • Eileen L 831279
                                                                                          I answer a how do I do that I haven't been this age before
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                                                                                          • Steffi 1419059
                                                                                            Child at heart trapped inside a woman's body, I intend to grow old one day!
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                                                                                            • Beverly I
                                                                                              Just be yourself do not listen to those remarks at all. Age is just a number. Your as old as you feel. You feel young that's great; I have turned seventy a few months ago and I don't know how I'm supposed to feel either, I tell people I still like I'm in my forties, I'm lucky that I still have my health.
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                                                                                              • LA
                                                                                                😂😂😂😂😂😂😂…..many times….some made a good point. Live and Learn Keep smiling
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                                                                                                • Dianne L 1050003
                                                                                                  Do what makes you happy; don’t try to always please others.
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                                                                                                  • Manel 1271300
                                                                                                    To a certain extent your dress should be able to match your maturity. But it’s not necessary to overly think about it. If you dress nicely everyone will admire you disregard of your aged appearance. Sometimes, the real aged people appear younger than their age and some very young age people can look old. Age is something you can’t judge by one’s appearance itself. Therefore I would be taking it easy. Good Luck!
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                                                                                                    • Peter H (ACT)
                                                                                                      I get that all the time,BUT wont tell you what I reply
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                                                                                                      • Bex
                                                                                                        If someone told me to act or dress my age, I would have two choice words for that person!! I'm not interested in being a cookie cutter version of everyone around me. Some people like to be sheep, I'm not one of them.
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                                                                                                        • Linda C
                                                                                                          I love that saying. No I have never had anyone say it to me. I am pretty normal with no outrageous behaviour. However, I do feel the young kids of today especially the young girls have lost the ability to be kids. They all want to be social influencers etc from a very young age. The way some of them dress is inappropriate to say the least and I am never sure what their parents are doing or thinking. Nothing wrong with still having an inner child as we age though.
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                                                                                                          • Carol S 657195
                                                                                                            That last comment says it all! I love that. I'm 71, and my brain sometimes thinks I'm a child. If I want to talk to objects or have conversations with myself, I do! I believe in having a good time until my time is up. Where are the rules that say how we should act at a certain age? In this age, it's all about being YOU! That's what I've decided to do. It's called freedom of expression. If you think I don't practice that, you need to subscribe to my video channel @WonkyandProud. You can all learn something from that. I'm finally free to be the crazy me I've always been!
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                                                                                                            • Annette G 805380
                                                                                                              Yeah ironically enough they were part of the psych team meant to be supporting me but instead they carried on that there something else wrong with me coz I wasn't dressing like people my age (other teens) 🙄
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                                                                                                              • Jessery 1516923
                                                                                                                Just be yourself don’t care what others think of say.
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                                                                                                                • doug p 631197
                                                                                                                  I'd tell them to f off and go look in the mirror and tell that idiot to mind their own business
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                                                                                                                  • Dimitri T 100433
                                                                                                                    just be yourself
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                                                                                                                    • Beverly W 1083564
                                                                                                                      I dont know how to act or dress my age because I have never been this old before!!!
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                                                                                                                      • JANN R
                                                                                                                        I dress and act how I like nobody has ever said I dont act my age or the way I dress its up to you and the way you feel nothing is right or wrong so who cares
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                                                                                                                        • Paul B 522937
                                                                                                                          Im as old as my tounge and a bit older than my teeth
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                                                                                                                          • Melissa 1411101
                                                                                                                            I have seen that top before, it's great. I'm 56, feel like I'm still in my late 20's. No idea how I should dress, I dress for comfort and special occasions. I have only been told I don't look my age, my guess is that were being polite, but I don't care. Age doesn't really define anything apart from voting etc. The only issue I have is that the second you turn 50ish people think that's old, when does old really start? It goes both ways as well, our future is in the hands of ***** so they should practice what they preach.
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                                                                                                                            • Squeekums
                                                                                                                              I have and i just laugh Who said my age means i have to stop enjoying things like WWE or stop dying my hair purple, wearing platform boots I still love to go out and get plastered or go ride rollercoasters and big show rides When my kid was born, my mother in law asked when i was going to cut my hair into a 'more appropriate mum style and length' - again i laughed Thos who say act your age are only doing it cos they to scared to have some fun and are jealous we still have the confidence to live and have fun
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                                                                                                                              • Glenyse H
                                                                                                                                Having fun at my age and I dress for any occasion without excessive fashion
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                                                                                                                                • Wendy Q
                                                                                                                                  Not really, they know better if they tried!
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                                                                                                                                  • Tupulua S
                                                                                                                                    Read the Bible 1 Corinthians 13 ; 11. When i was a child, I understood as a child, thought as a child, but when i became a man, i put away childish thins.......... You can NOT stay young, as we are all getting old mind and body
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                                                                                                                                    • Squeekums
                                                                                                                                      'read the bible' that says it all right there - bible likes old boring and frumpy Your only as old as you feel Im happy to be a 36yr old WWE fan with purple hair, who loves drinking and roller coasters
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                                                                                                                                    • MoposSqueekums
                                                                                                                                      Indeed and loves coffee !!
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                                                                                                                                    • Linda CSqueekums
                                                                                                                                      That is still young. Wait till you are in your 60's or 70's plus. Then age creeps up on you and you can no longer act how you want due to the aches and pains in knees, hips etc. I must admit I feel younger and in my mind than what I am but when I look in the mirror boy what a shock. I have always looked at least 10 years younger than my age so I am ahead of the game there. I can act 10 years younger and no one would say boo.
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                                                                                                                                    • Tupulua SMopos
                                                                                                                                      Yes coffee without milk, 2 tea spoon sugar
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                                                                                                                                    • SqueekumsLinda C
                                                                                                                                      But even when the physical body declines Your interests dont have to change, like there will never be a day you find me knitting booties for grandbabies or going off to the bingo hall I will be that old woman screaming at the footy I will be the old woman with purple hair I will be the old woman who can still tell you current storlines in WWE I will be the old woman dresses in black skull prints with a cocktail in my hand
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                                                                                                                                  • APB
                                                                                                                                    I have never experienced that one...maybe it happens a lot less with guys? .....the other T-shirt I like is "I'm the same age as old people"...
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                                                                                                                                    • Robert L NZ
                                                                                                                                      HI APB LIFE IS MADE TO ENJOY SO DON'T LET ANYONE TELL ANY DIFFERENT. PLAYED BINGO TODAY FIRST TIME IN ALMOST A YEAR, CONTACTED HARRY VIC NOW HOT PANTS HARRY, AND BAZZA ALSO VIC. WON TWO BINGOS. CHEERS
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                                                                                                                                    • Chin C
                                                                                                                                      Definitely happens more with female and the critics are usually female too.
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                                                                                                                                    • Linda CChin C
                                                                                                                                      Agree to a certain extent but men are very critical of women also. Many wives can attest to that.
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                                                                                                                                  • merricat
                                                                                                                                    I don't know how to act my age, I've never been this age before.
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                                                                                                                                    • Ann 1454919
                                                                                                                                      Age is just a number but with experience for a backup and logic for the future.
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                                                                                                                                      • Peter C 985325
                                                                                                                                        I reserve the right to reinvent the requirements for my age if I feel like it.
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                                                                                                                                        • Lance P 1114997
                                                                                                                                          It’s alway best to act much younger than you are, life is to short….so have fun.
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                                                                                                                                          • Amy B 1078427
                                                                                                                                            Who cares what people think. If you are a good person just continue to do you
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                                                                                                                                            • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                              at one point it was the 'grammar police' - which still exist at this website - now - it is 'act or dress your age police' - what the F... is it with morally corrupt baby boomers - UNFORTUNATELY I am a baby boomer - baby boomers sweat the small stuff - but keep their mouth shut when it comes to damaging the only planet HUMANS live on - la vie est une saloope et puis vous mourez - mont de rire aka LOL
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                                                                                                                                              • Jenny L 591463
                                                                                                                                                Funny and very cute. I am a big kid at heart so no one has told me to act my age although my Mum did say to me recently you never grew up did you because I was trying to make an apple skin snake. Well what is the fun in being so serious? We used to joke and laugh a lot with my parents but since my sister has come onto the scene it's all doom and gloom. Mum has dementia, you can't talk about that. The list goes on and on. Lighten up and enjoy life. Be as kooky as you want, make people laugh, we need more of it because every thing these days has to be so politically correct. Stuff their politically correctness right out the window, it has gone way too far and we can't enjoy life any more our way, the way we see fit.
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                                                                                                                                                • Empress
                                                                                                                                                  No, I have never had this compulsion to stay young. Some days I think if my time was up I'd be glad to go. And anyone who would say such a horrible thing to me will be kicked to the kerb. Not all friends are real friends.
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                                                                                                                                                  • Colin L 88398
                                                                                                                                                    Not sure how to act my age I just do what I want and it worries the hell out of the cops I taught to drive.
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                                                                                                                                                    • Jeanine R
                                                                                                                                                      I want to be mature and ssuch. I do dress for comfort now and I am generally presentable. I do want to tell some younger than me to dress well in other clothes,
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                                                                                                                                                      • Luv ur
                                                                                                                                                        I already do, so don't get remarks of this kind. I'm happy about what I present and that's invaluable.
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                                                                                                                                                        • John 1411099
                                                                                                                                                          My friends aren't stuck up
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                                                                                                                                                          • Linda 3
                                                                                                                                                            I dress mostly for comfort and my clothes are always clean and presentable, I think I dress appropriately. I act mature when I need to, but enjoy being a kid at heart sometimes too.
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                                                                                                                                                            • Angela 1484008
                                                                                                                                                              All that matters is how you feel on the inside. Why would you care what others think especially if you don't know or respect them.Do what make you happy.
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                                                                                                                                                              • rikki 1510162
                                                                                                                                                                yes but i think if it makes you happy to act a little silly i say go ahead and do it
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                                                                                                                                                                • Daniel A 2
                                                                                                                                                                  I wear what I have? It's nothing about acting. It's called dressing. I suppose I get told to act my age because of the way I talk.
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                                                                                                                                                                  • Rita H 1119904
                                                                                                                                                                    I'm with most here. I just dress what looks good on me. Actually, I haven't changed my style for most of my life. I just don't wear clothes as tight as I used to. My age it's comfiness is the key. 😁
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                                                                                                                                                                    • pam rae
                                                                                                                                                                      never, have always acted whatever age I was and showed class always so no problem with me....
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                                                                                                                                                                      • Squirrelsmo
                                                                                                                                                                        I dress for comfort. I have never been told to act or dress my age, I feel that I dress myself as I seem fit, not for anyone else. It's about moumou age lol. Wear what you want. Whoever said that was probably either young, close minded or jealous, which should never matter in the first place.
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                                                                                                                                                                        • Dada WA
                                                                                                                                                                          So who decides what ia appopriate for each age group? I dress how I want to don't care what others think! And so should everyone.
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                                                                                                                                                                          • Lyn A.
                                                                                                                                                                            hmm interesting question. Never been told to do that. If I was I would hopefully think on my feet and say something like "until you have walked in my shoes don't tell me how to tie my laces"
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                                                                                                                                                                            • Ghostgirl1971
                                                                                                                                                                              Be yourself always!
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                                                                                                                                                                              • Cathy S 315728
                                                                                                                                                                                what exactly is 'act your age' wear what you want, do what you want no matter what your 'age' is, as long as it's within the law :)
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                                                                                                                                                                                • TUBZY BOO
                                                                                                                                                                                  NOT YOUR SHOE SIZE
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                                                                                                                                                                                  • Val 1394045
                                                                                                                                                                                    I act and dress my age
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